Voice of the DBA

Tag: vacation

  • Summer Break

    This feels like a strange day in the summer, with a holiday yesterday (Fourth of July) and the weekend starting tonight. This is similar to the Friday after the US Thanksgiving holiday, which is usually a day when very little gets accomplished in most offices. I’ll be a little more productive at home than I would be in an office, but I’ll still have a bit of a holiday lull from yesterday and a weekend coming up. Actually, maybe I’ll get plenty done since I’m sure my body is tired after working on driveway maintenance and (hopefully) rebuilding a trailer hub. (If you haven’t guessed, I’m writing this before the break)

    It’s the start of the second half of the year and a time when many people take holidays. Schools are usually on break, so families often look to travel somewhere. Some of us might take a staycation, catching up on projects at home. I know I’ll be doing that a bit this summer as a busy first half of the year has me way behind on a number of maintenance items and projects.

    We all need a break, so this week I’m asking you what things you might do this summer with friends and family that provide a welcome distraction from work. I’m assuming you’ll have some time off, even if it’s just a weekend, so share a fun event or activity you’re looking forward to enjoying.

    With my kids getting older, we rarely get together. Even on some of the smaller holidays, my son won’t come home from university. If we do get together, it’s often just a meal, though we did have a fun afternoon of bocce after my daughter’s graduation from high school. Maybe we’ll get out this weekend and do that again.

    My wife, kids, and I love music. Some of us play instruments, some of us sing, but we enjoy hearing music all the time. We also enjoy movies, and last year my family when to see Bohemian Rhapsody, which was amazing. The music is great and I recommend this entertaining and enjoyable film. We also saw Rocketman recently, a good, but sad film for me to watch. Perhaps we’ll all go see Yesterday this weekend since we enjoy the music of The Beatles. We’ve been Marvel fans, so I’m sure Spider-Man is on our agenda. This particular reboot is my favorite so far, so that’s a possibility as well. We might have a bit of a debate on which to go see or just go see both.

    I’ve gotten away from most sporting events and live concerts at event centers due to the time commitments (and cost). These days my wife and I may go see a local musician or a comedy act, but more often than not a movie (at home or out) is a way we escape from some of the pressures of life.

    Hopefully you have something you’re looking forward to, so let us know today how you’ll brighten up your summer months.

    Steve Jones

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  • A Busy Few Weeks and Vacation

    I’m taking a short break from blogging with a 3 week trip to Australia and New Zealand. I’ve got quite a bit of work to do, as well as session prep for a busy schedule (5 different sessions to deliver) on quite a few time zones away from home.

    And a little break in the middle as my family joins me in NZ.

    Look for some blogging to pick back up the week of June 17.

  • Unwired for Weeks

    I took a few weeks off recently for a vacation with my family. We traveled from Denver to Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming and then on to Glacier National Park in Montana. We drove a horse trailer, camping along the way in the vast outdoors of America. It was a wonderful time and a beautiful part of the country. If you get the chance to visit, I’d highly recommend the trip.

    One of the interesting things on this trip was that I was very unwired. In fact, I didn’t even take a laptop, which is a rarity for me. Often I’ll take one to jot notes, sketch an editorial, or just have around to check on things. This time, I didn’t bother, and neither did my wife. One kid did, but only because he was enrolled in a couple classes (CS and Math) this summer and had assignments to do.

    The only device I had was my phone, which didn’t have service for much of the trip. Both during long drives (I was glad Google Maps downloads directions), at many of our campsites, and in the national parks, there was little service. In fact, when I did have service, I was surprised. The camping locations did have wi-fi, but I only used it to upload pictures of the trip and didn’t even bother checking social media as I posted. I mostly uploaded pictures to ensure I had a backup.

    I did check email once early on to be sure that I hadn’t forgotten anything from work early, and forwarded on a couple items to people, but when I arrived home last week, I had hundreds of messages from Redgate and probably close to a thousand from SQLServerCentral. It was quite a chore handling and deleting a number of items, and took half of my Monday back in the office.

    What was interesting to me is that I didn’t really miss the social media much, certainly didn’t miss the news, and nothing that important came up. I didn’t worry about work, knowing that something would go wrong (such as a few buggy questions) and that someone would handle the situation (thanks to Grant for fixing things) or delay the item until I returned. I found numerous meetings canceled or rescheduled without me and quite a few hastily dashed emails or queries that were later retracted or amended. In fact, going through emails from newest to oldest allowed me to delete older, out of date messages without reading them.

    I rarely take more than a few days off at a time, usually just a long weekend here and there, but this proved (again) something I’ve suspected for a long time. Much of the pressure we feel with deadlines at work is arbitrarily imposed. Whether we do it to ourselves or someone else picks a datetime, there isn’t any rationale for the choice. Usually the goal is to complete work as fast as possible, but if there are delays, if something comes up, with life, other tasks, unforeseen failures (hardware/software) get in the way, the business will survive.

    I learned a long time ago that despite my best efforts, things will go wrong and there will be delays. I’ve learned to expect them, accept them and try to not add any extra stress on myself when things are delayed. Go home at a reasonable hour most of the time, live the rest of your life, while doing the best professional job you can. There will always be more work, and the business will survive if most of your work ends up being delayed slightly.

    Steve Jones

    The Voice of the DBA Podcast

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  • A few fun pics from vacation

    A few nice pics from vacation. Posting here as I’ll link from an editorial.

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