Daily Coping 15 Feb 2021

I started to add a daily coping tip to the SQLServerCentral newsletter and to the Community Circle, which is helping me deal with the issues in the world. I’m adding my responses for each day here. All my coping tips are under this tag.

Today’s tip is to when you’re frustrated with someone, take a moment and see things from their perspective.

I am pretty easy going, and I tolerate a variety of reactions from people. I don’t get too upset, and as I get older, I very much appreciate other perspectives.

The last month, with the failure of the PASS organization and then Redgate’s purchase of the assets, has been hard. It’s been hectic, it’s been stressful, and it’s been confusing because the entire sale came together quickly.

In that time, I know there are people whose feelings were hurt, who don’t trust Redgate, or that feel this was a problem. I have had to deal with some of those people, and I’ve certainly felt attacked, berated, and maybe worse, just ignored.

However, I have tried not to get too upset. Or really, remain upset. Instead, I’ve tried to look at things from their perspective, try to understand, and then see if I can work towards a way forward that people would appreciate.

It somewhat works.

I also still feel a bit down about this whole situation.

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2 Responses to Daily Coping 15 Feb 2021

  1. Glenn Berry says:

    You shouldn’t let the initial complaints and suspicions about Redgate buying some of what was left of PASS get you down. I don’t think you have anything to be defensive about.

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  2. way0utwest says:

    Thanks. I’ve been through this before with SSC. I know trust is hard to come by, but I am trying to do what I can to rebuild things.

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